Archive March, 2018 - What The Red Herring
Vegetarian Pelau

Vegetarian Pelau

Hey, Trinbagonians! If you’re looking for some good veggie pelau, you’re in the right place. If there is anything I can do to make this page more user-friendly (more photos?), leave me a note in the comments.
Here’s a traditional West Indian recipe I adapted from my mother-in-law’s original recipe. It’s purposely a little vague. My mother-in-law says to “feel and taste your way through.”
Project File: Watercolor Silhouettes

Project File: Watercolor Silhouettes

One of my favorite projects I’ve done with the kids was our watercolor silhouettes.

We started out in a dark room with white 8×11″ card stock, a pencil, and a flashlight.

The person whose profile I was tracing stood in front of blank wall (or in our case, a door) while the other person was about ten feet back from them holding the flashlight. You can use painter’s tape to hold the paper up while you trace.

I had my six year old at the time hold the flashlight. If I had it to do over again, I might have rigged some kind of tripod up to hold the flashlight, as there were a lot of moving parts between the flashlight and the subject! A benefit to having an actual person hold the flashlight is that they can move forward or back to help get the outline on the paper to be crisp, and the right size. I recognize that this is super low tech, but it was part of the fun of the project for us.

Futility and Style

Futility and Style

(Photo Credit: P. Furniss)

One could argue that as a mostly SAHM with a part-time job that I wear scrubs for, my personal style doesn’t matter. And really, it doesn’t.

I leave my house to go grocery shopping and take my kids to activities or to the library. I go out on dates with my husband or leave the house by myself about twice a month. And when I say go out by myself, I usually mean, solo grocery shopping. I go to church on Sunday. Otherwise, I’m almost never Out In Public.

A lot of life feels like a struggle right now. Home school burnout has been bubbling up for a couple of years now. There are a lot of littles in our house. I get overstimulated. I’m struggling internally because I have everything I need and almost everything I want, and I’m still anxious and depressed.

Life feels hard, and no matter what I wear.

How Many Shoes Does a Girl Need?

How Many Shoes Does a Girl Need?

A few days ago, my oldest daughter was at a church event with kids her age all day. Not long after, she mentioned to me quietly that she found out that day that she was the only kid there with only one pair of shoes.

I asked her a few questions, and more information came out about what had happened over the next day or so.

I felt really sad that it was at a church function where my kid began to feel insecure about Stuff. I had to think about it for a while before I came back to her about it.

What, Exactly, Doth Thou Discriminate Against?

What, Exactly, Doth Thou Discriminate Against?

I have what they call a Large Family. In fact, as one of my sister-in-law’s friends put it, “That squad is deep.” I don’t know if it was meant as a compliment, but I like it. We have a Deep Squad.

Sometimes we get a super warm welcome.

Our kids are generally well behaved. They are smart, and interesting. Yep, they totally have their bad days, and when they are excited and confined to a small space, even I don’t want to be with them.